Silence can be one of our best friends. It teaches to listen and to understand. It teaches to notice the things we ignored. It has its own music. If only we learned how to stop for a moment and reconnect all the pieces of ourselves and the world together. Stay humble, we are all in the same boat.
Love is not an object. It cannot be possessed. It cannot be bought, stolen, found. It cannot be lured, caught and caged. No rings and no
promises can keep love.
Love is not a feeling. The most beautiful faces and seductive bodies cannot guarantee love. The sweetest words cannot induce love. Impeccable characters and wonderful souls undergo unrequited love. No amount of kindness and selfless giving can evoke love in empty hearts.
Love is a way of being. Truly loving person shares it freely with everyone. Love is a verb that doesn't need an object. You can see the love in the way they walk, talk, work, smile, touch... Loving hearts do everything with care.
Only they who can understand and enjoy the music of our silence, can claim that they know us well.
We can speak many languages, but it's the language of the hearts that truly connects us.
Try to translate what your friend/partner is saying without focusing on words. You may discover some very unique dialect there.
If love was the water, it would need more moisture to grow. It would dry out under the heat.
If love was the fire, it would survive the heat, but would die under the water.
Whatever love is, it is fragile and needs care. It needs the force of the same nature to make it strong. The opposite force, no matter how attractive it might be, will only destroy it.
Celebrate the differences, but don't let incompatibilities to diminish your essence.
Women have an incredible ability to make a house a home. Given the right conditions and atmosphere, they can fill all around them with love.
Statistically, single women are doing better than single men. They are healthier and more successful. Men are known for withholding their emotions and for their resistance to commitment. However, it's a warm and loving relationship that heals all the wounds and gives the strength to both partners. Some men don't realize it and miss out on this advantage. All they have to do for their own benefit is to genuinely care about their women and watch their life flourishing as a result.
This is a generalized statement for heterosexual monogamous relationships. The idea is the same for all - never hold off love and care. Embrace it. It's not a sign of being weak, it will only make you stronger.
We tend to like those who ignore us, those who we cannot have. The truth is, we cannot possess anybody. It's our hurting Ego is longing for a reconciliation with that person who got us "hooked". The best way to deal with such situation is to let the "feelings" subside and die out of the lack of attention. Don't dwell on them, don't hate yourself. Write a poem, sing a song, draw a heart, dance in the rain, play musical instrument, cook your favorite meal, buy yourself new pair of shoes, eat that chocolate cake, drink martini, get new haircut - do what you love to do and express yourself in the best way you can. Turn pain into a muse :) Then let it go. We all deserve true, healthy love and care.
They say opposites attract.
However, it's similarities that stay. You can learn from your opposite, but nothing feels so comfortable and so at home as being with someone who shares the same quirks and weirdnesses as you are. When you find those like-minded people, never let them go.